{"id":691,"date":"2014-01-11T14:59:18","date_gmt":"2014-01-11T11:59:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/?p=691"},"modified":"2014-05-04T19:51:55","modified_gmt":"2014-05-04T16:51:55","slug":"vointa-si-dorinta-cu-bata-la-un-meci-de-sah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/?p=691","title":{"rendered":"Voin\u0163a \u015fi Dorin\u0163a – cu b\u00e2ta la un meci de \u015fah"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fum\u0103torii, \u00een special cei care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 renun\u0163e pentru prima dat\u0103, opteaz\u0103 pentru voin\u0163\u0103 ca principal instrument de lupt\u0103 \u00eempotriva dorin\u0163ei. Dorin\u0163\u0103 – Voin\u0163\u0103, pare o lupt\u0103 echitabil\u0103 \u00eentre doi adversari egali, “fie ca cel mai \"\"bun s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftige” p\u0103r\u00e2nd un slogan potrivit. Ei bine, lucrurile nu stau nici pe departe a\u015fa. Ambi\u0163ia este un lupt\u0103tor brut, f\u0103r\u0103 prea mult\u0103 minte \u015fi un mare energofag, epuiz\u00e2nd rapid resurse psihice extrem de necesare \u00een alte zone cum ar fi ,de pild\u0103, sistemul motiva\u0163ional. \u015eansele sale de izb\u00e2nd\u0103 se diminueaz\u0103 sim\u0163itor cu fiecare “lupt\u0103” \u00eempotriva dorin\u0163ei, obosind din ce \u00een ce mai mult. Unii dintre cei care s-au l\u0103sat baz\u00e2ndu-se pe voin\u0163\u0103 sus\u0163in chiar faptul c\u0103 le este mai greu s\u0103 fac\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 dorin\u0163ei seara si, aparent paradoxal, mult mai u\u015for diminea\u0163a la cafea. Pe termen lung, este aproape imposibil s\u0103 nu recazi dac\u0103 pleci la r\u0103zboi cu voin\u0163a pe post de drapel.<\/p>\n

De ce stau lucrurile astfel? Deoarece lupta dintre voin\u0163\u0103 si dorin\u0163\u0103 este o lupt\u0103 cu morile de v\u00e2nt. Nu dorin\u0163a este adev\u0103ratul du\u015fman ci dependen\u0163a. Dependen\u0163a este un strateg iscusit \u015fi \u015firet care lupt\u0103 murdar folosind tehnici de manipulare, persuasiune, elemente-surpriz\u0103 \u015fi tot felul de capcane. Dorin\u0163a nu este altceva dec\u00e2t felul dependen\u0163ei de a-\u0163i ar\u0103ta ce trebuie s\u0103 faci pentru a sc\u0103pa de starea mizerabil\u0103 pe care o tr\u0103ie\u015fti \u00een sevraj: Aprinde o \u0163igar\u0103 \u015fi stresul, anxietatea, irascibilitatea, agita\u0163ia, insomniile, somnolen\u0163a, depresia, dificult\u0103\u0163ile de concentrare etc. vor disp\u0103rea ca prin minune; N-o face \u015fi te vei sim\u0163i mizerabil tot restul vie\u0163ii! <\/i>Dependen\u0163a este aidoma Hidrei din mitologia greac\u0103, monstru care-\u015fi regenera capetele odat\u0103 t\u0103iate. Po\u0163i alege s\u0103-\u0163i sacrifici timp \u015fi energie t\u0103ind o vreme capete sau po\u0163i alege s\u0103 lup\u0163i folosindu-ti iste\u0163imea. La urma urmei, Heracle dovedit-o pe Hidr\u0103 cu s\u0103ge\u0163i otr\u0103vite cu s\u00e2ngele acesteia.<\/p>\n

\u00cen concluzie, voin\u0163a te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 faci fa\u0163\u0103 un timp<\/p>\n

Pentru a \u00eenvinge, trebuie s\u0103-\u0163i asumi patru lucruri:<\/p>\n

1. E\u015fti dependent de drog (nicotin\u0103);<\/p>\n

2. Trebuie s\u0103-\u0163i cuno\u015fti \u00een cel mai infim detaliu du\u015fmanul (dependen\u0163a)<\/p>\n

3. Renun\u0163atul la fumat este obiectivul t\u0103u numarul 1, preocuparea ta principal\u0103 pentru cel pu\u0163in urm\u0103toarele \u015fase luni;<\/p>\n

4.\u00a0 Nu vei mai introduce niciodat\u0103 \u015fi sub nici o form\u0103 nicotin\u0103 \u00een organism.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Fum\u0103torii, \u00een special cei care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 renun\u0163e pentru prima dat\u0103, opteaz\u0103 pentru voin\u0163\u0103 ca principal instrument de lupt\u0103 \u00eempotriva dorin\u0163ei. Dorin\u0163\u0103 – Voin\u0163\u0103, pare o lupt\u0103 echitabil\u0103 \u00eentre doi adversari egali, “fie ca cel mai bun s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftige” p\u0103r\u00e2nd un slogan potrivit. Ei bine, lucrurile nu stau nici pe departe a\u015fa. Ambi\u0163ia este un […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[16],"class_list":["post-691","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-servicii","tag-renunta-la-fumat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/691","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=691"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/691\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":693,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/691\/revisions\/693"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psycovery.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}